I almost burstintotears, but I didn’t. I nodded while the nurse apologized, not wanting her to talk to me, notknowing how to tell her to leave. The staff made a comment about driving me to the hospital for my D&C, but I said I wanted to finish miscarrying at home.
Understanding the Context
My husband and I got married when we were both 20, because we accidentally got pregnant. Everyone shook their heads in dismay when we got married at such a young age. They thought that my husband, at his age, would notknow how to take care of his wife and children. Iburstintotears when he called me a hypercondriac because I said Iwashurting.
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Thiswas months after having weaponised incompetence, over controlling behaviour (asking where Iwas going when Iwas getting up to go to the toilet in my own home), calling me his B***h Queen from Hell. But Wen Hanshan knew that there were no “ifs” in this world. Moreover, their seas of consciousness were connected. Even if he had not uttered a single word at the time, Lou Xingyao would still have seen every truth when their divine senses intertwined. Last Sunday Iburstintotears in front of him, something I think I never did before!
Final Thoughts
Iwas full of pain, anger, and sadness. The little child, little girl inside me finally came out and poured out all her pain and expressed her anger! Sadly my feelings were and are “forbidden” at home. My mother burstintotears.The phrase real friends told me everything. She was learning to distinguish between people who genuinely cared and people who pretended. Real, live maggots.
Postop care is just as important as the surgery itself. You can’t shortcut healing, and this? This turned a simple recovery into a full-blown infection, hospital admission, and possibly another surgery. Lesson of the day: LISTEN T...